You want a satisfying, happy, thriving life - but deep down, you know your relationships need work and that affects how you feel about everything else.
I bet this is what you were told to do when you first found yourself struggling…
Probably somewhere along the way you were told to “focus on the positive!”
Then, when counting your blessings didn’t seem to be working, you were told to try a self-help book, listen to a podcast or subscribe to a YouTube channel. Maybe you even sent a link to your partner hoping they’d check it out too and things would improve.
When self-help books and podcasts didn’t seem to help, you started to shut down a little or avoid certain topics, certain social situations. Maybe you’d skip that party or come up with an excuse as to why you’re just “too busy” or “too tired.”
At least that way you couldn’t be triggered, right?
Or maybe you got really good at numbing out altogether with TV, work, food, alcohol, etc.
Maybe you’ve even worked with other coaches in the past, tried therapy or joined a support group. While some of these things were helpful, you still find yourself feeling stuck and unable to experience real change and true connection.
You still lack confidence. You’re still lonely.
I know you’ve tried. There were times when you’ve given it your all. Times when things were going well, maybe even excellent. A new relationship was off to a great start. You were kicking ass at your job. You felt like success with a capital S. And then inevitably, things fell off. Your relationship ended, you lost luster at work. You were tired, burned out, sad and disappointed. Again.
Maybe you’ve been struggling like this for months…or maybe it’s been going on for years…with all of that pain and frustration buried deep, but here’s the thing:
It’s all still right there. Lurking beneath the surface and holding YOU back.
Identify the root cause of the issues in your relationship (hint: it probably has to do with past relationships + faulty learning).
Create a structure and plan with accountability for practicing new ways of relating until they become a habit.
Instead of avoiding, what you actually need to do is simple:
That’s where I work my magic
(actually, it’s not magic - it’s training + neuroscience + personal experience).
I want you to have the same success that my past clients have had.
They’re connected. They’re secure. They’ve created a sustainable plan to experience deep, authentic relationships both with others and within themselves. They’re better parents, friends, coworkers and confident partners, living with passion and intention.